Answering Questions About Swinging Ch. 02
We invited our good friends over for dinner. They had questions about us being swingers.
"Can you tell us about what you have seen at the club?" Ed said.
"One of the first times we went, I can remember that there were 4 guys sitting side-by-side on the edge of the hot tub with their feet in the water. Each guy had a woman in the water between their legs giving them a blowjob. So, my wife and I looked at each other and I sat down next to one of the guys. Then my wife got into the hot tub and gave me a blow job too," I said. "When in Rome..."
"I remember a senior couple off in one corner of the orgy room doing it. He was on top and moving slowly and sensuously. They kept it up for maybe a half hour before they both had an orgasm -- he never moved fast but was consistent and long lasting. I remember that they left a large wet spot when they left," my wife said.
"Sometimes I have seen a woman with a man in the orgy room and when they finished, another man would step in and have seconds. Sometimes a woman would have 4 or 5 guys in a row before she got up and left," I added.
"Oh my God! That is incredible. I wonder how she could do it," Caroline said.
"Well, some women have a difficulty reaching an orgasm with one man but not with another. Some women enjoy the stroking and the thrill of getting a man off. A woman having several guys either in a row or separately throughout the evening - well, each guy does it differently and has different equipment so the lady enjoys a variety that she cannot get at home," I answered.
"Also, some women enjoy a different size of man than what she has at home, if you understand my meaning," my wife added. "For me it was the variety because I already had a big one at home. It was like I was dating again but you get right to the sex."
"Did you have more than one guy a night there?" Caroline asked.
"Most of the time I only had sex with my wonderful husband. If I did have sex with someone else, it was only one guy," my wife answered.
"But women can have several men in one evening?" Caroline asked.
"It is possible to have several men over one visit to the club, provided that there are several men that you want to be with. Sometimes there was no one that you wanted to be with, then you just have sex with your husband," my wife answered.
"So, you guys had sex with other people too?" Caroline asked.
"Yes, but we were very picky about who we had sex with. It had to be someone that I was attracted to or someone who turned me on by watching how they performed," my wife answered.
"For me, I didn't jump on the first naked woman I saw. It really had to be someone special because I already had the best lover in the world. Good looks does not mean that the lady is good in bed. For example I might see a woman who catches my attention and then I say to myself, 'I wonder how she would be in bed?' Then during the evening I would observe her with a man or men. Her performance would make the decision whether to have sex with her or not." I said.
"Did you see any kinky stuff?" Ed asked.
"Well, that depends on what you think is kinky. There was no male homosexual activity; it was one of the club's rules. Sometimes we did see two women together. The men gathered around to watch. There was no BDSM. But really, I don't think we saw anything I would call kinky," I answered.
"When you were at the swingers' club, did all the women have to give blowjobs? I can't do that. The couple of times Ed made me try, I always gagged and almost threw up. I can't even imagine him shooting into my mouth or swallowing it. Yuck!" Caroline said.
Ed looked very disappointed.
"Most of the men at the club did want a blowjob as part of the foreplay. In fact, members who had been around for a while would not get an erection until you gave them some head. It was rarely done to orgasm so swallowing was not an issue," my wife explained. "I have no gag reflex, so giving a man head is easy for me to do and I really enjoy doing it. I would say it is my favorite activity in sex. It is really exciting when you can make the guy cum. If I didn't want to swallow it, I would pull off when I felt him start to cum. Then I would finish him with a handjob. My loving husband knew that I had given many blowjobs before we started dating. And yes, I did it at the Swinger's Club with other men."
Caroline negatively shook her head and said, "I just could not do that."
"Let me offer this to you: Over the years I have shown several women how to give a blowjob without gagging or swallowing," I replied.
"Really? Could you show Caroline how to do it?" Ed asked.
"I can but are you willing to drop your pants here and now so that I can show her how to do it for you?" I asked.
"No! Well, can't you show her somehow or maybe use your dick?" Ed asked.
"My husband is quite a bit larger compared to most men so it is hard to give him a blow job. I have learned how to do it to satisfy him but it took a long time for me to adapt my technique," my wife answered.
"Ed, I don't want to learn how and I don't want to do it. It is very distasteful to me," Caroline said.
"Wait... you say he is bigger than other men? Just how big are you?" Ed said loudly and Caroline smiled.
"I have never measured it. It is just an observation I have made over the years," I answered.
