My wife has a high school friend named Azra, who lives about 500 miles away from us. I'd never met her, but I'd seen pictures of her when my wife would chat with her on Facebook. Those pictures showed a very pretty girl with a nice body, so it was no wonder she caught herself a rich husband. And from what my wife would tell me, she lived a fairytale life. Except, fairytales aren't real and real life doesn't always have happy endings. That's because her prince had a dark side filled with drugs, alcohol and gambling. And, after drinking and especially after losing large amounts of money gambling, he would physically abuse his princess. The last time he did that, she spent almost a month in the hospital recovering.
When she filed for her divorce, she needed somewhere to stay until it was over. She couldn't go to her family, because they always sent her back to him when she tried. Her marriage had benefited her family too much financially and they'd lose it all if she got a divorce. They were way too selfish to let her happiness get in the way of theirs. And, all of her friends were afraid of what her husband's money could do to them if they tried to help her. All of them that is except my wife. Since I'm an American, and work for the US government, there wasn't much he could do to us. And, because of the political fallout, he wouldn't dare try anyway. So, naturally, Azra ended up moving in with us for the duration of her divorce.
You'd think I'd be happy having another beautiful woman in the house, and you'd be wrong. That's because they totally destroy the routines of your life. Any time you have overnight guests, there's some disruptions. For example, you can't walk around the house in your underwear, or even run to the toilet at 2 am like that. And forget about coming out of the shower wrapped in a towel. You really can't even run around shirtless to be honest, you have to be fully dressed at all times. And not only do you have to close the bathroom door, you have to lock it too, to prevent accidental walk ins. Plus there are etiquette issues, like watching your language and being careful about your body noises. But these are things you have to do no matter who the guest is.
When the guest is a beautiful woman, the list of prohibited activities gets a lot longer. You can't be alone with them in the same room. You can't talk to them like a normal person because it might constitute flirting. And, you have to be extremely careful where your eyes are looking at all times. The last thing in the world you want is for your wife to start thinking you have some kind of sexual interest in their guest. That's the quickest way there is to end up sitting next to your guest's husband in divorce court. So, you have to walk around on eggshells the entire time your guest is there.
Speaking of sex, having a guest, particularly a pretty female guest, has a seriously detrimental effect on your love life. No cuddling on the couch kissing, no grabbing your wife from behind in the kitchen, and no touching at all where the guest can see. And, when they are guests who will be staying an extended length of time, no sex at all for at least the first week. That's because your wife doesn't feel comfortable making love with someone else in the house. And when you do finally start doing it again, you have to be very quiet about it. I mean, imagine the shame if your guest finds out that a married couple actually has sex in their own bed in their own house.
Having Azra living with us was even more frustrating than a normal guest would be. That's because she didn't follow the same rules, and my wife wouldn't let me say anything because of what Azra was going through. For example, when I was home from work, she'd usually be dressed in skimpy shorts and tight shirts that made it obvious she wasn't wearing either underwear or a bra. And on weekends, when I was up late at night, she'd run around in nightgowns that left even less to the imagination. Plus, she'd come to the breakfast table wearing those same almost transparent gowns. She had no problem leaving the shower wearing only a short towel. But, she did have a problem remembering to lock the bathroom door when she was in there, and there were a few accidents when she didn't answer my knock. And while I didn't think they were deliberate acts at the time, the effect was the same as if they had been.
If you're asking why I'm only talking about things that might cause sexual tension, that's simple. The biggest problem with having Azra living with us was the sexual tension she created. On the one hand, you have Azra dressing in ways that are definitely provocative, and leaving opportunities to catch her completely naked. On the other hand, you have my wife not taking care of my sexual needs, at the same time she's telling me to allow Azra to do these things. Then on top of it, for the first week at least, she kept telling me not to look at her when she was dressed like that, and to leave the room if I couldn't avoid it. But at the same time, she was getting upset by me ignoring our guest, and not looking at her when I talked to her. But, by the second week, she'd realized the impossibility of meeting both her demands, and after that only got mad if I stared.
It was also at the end of the first week that the other problem with Azra started. Our walls are not paper thin, but still we started hearing the unmistakable sounds of someone having orgasms late at night. Its ironic that my wife was afraid to make love because our guest might hear, but our guest had no qualms about us hearing her masturbate at least three nights a week. Naturally, the sounds would arouse me, but if I made any advances on my wife, she'd go ballistic. That's because she felt my arousal was the result of me fantasizing about our guest. But after a week of listening to that, she at least agreed that we could make love on the nights Azra wasn't playing with herself. As for her accusation though, it was unfortunately true, because even on the nights she didn't masturbate I couldn't help but think about her as my wife and I made love.