Authors note: Thank you Zammee for the excellent editing help. If there are any authors out there that would like a honest opinion of their work please contact him. As always, any errors after his editing are purely my fault for going back and "touching" things up.
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Isn't life fun, me and my baby girl have a blast. We enjoy traveling, love it! She is a foodie and I am happy with wings, she runs half marathons and I enjoy watching her bounce. But at the end of the day we both love sex, we have a great and exciting sex life and occasionally we invite someone special into our fun and games. As most swingers know finding a second male to play with as a couple can be EXTREMLY frustrating and laborious process.
But every once in a while her and I throw past experiences and common sense out the door and go on a meet and greet hoping for that one gem.
Would you like to read about that rare shining gem, ok then start scrolling.
This is a 100% true story about a meet and greet with a guy we met on AFF. It usually takes us months of exchanged e-mails to narrow down to a select few then we arrange meet and greets at various locations (baseball games, restaurants, actual swinging clubs etc). Neither one of us are in a rush and the swinging stuff whether full swap, soft swap or even soft swing is just a thing we do once or twice a year.
Now I am never nervous at these events, after all why would I be? I am not the one on display here. Granted my sexy girl has nothing to worry about ,however she is still a female and females tend to worry about most things in life ESPECIALLY their body image no matter how perfect.
I could tell by the way that Nicole was acting that night that she was nervous, but she needn't be. She was dressed in a spaghetti strapped blue cocktail dress with some type of shelf bra (don't ask me what it is). It's hard for her to hide her cleavage in her conservative work suits it was impossible in a cocktail dress. Her hair was thick and dark, her nails a matching oyster blue. Her shoes were open toed heels with some sparkly bedazzled look going on, I think she said they were "coach heels" (huh doesn't coach just make purses, whatever I barely ever notice her feet anyway). Also her toenails were painted to match. How do I know you ask, well she always I mean ALWAYS gets a pedicure before any of these meet and greets. "Just in case" she always says. It gives her more confidence to know she has pretty toes and feet. I never stand in the way of any confidence building exercises in women, makes them sexier.
We arrive a tad early at the restaurant (my pet peeve) and are pleasantly surprised when Brian (our third) is already there. Score one for him I think.
Now Brian is exactly like his photos (again another pleasant surprise, and no don't ask how bad they get) and I can tell he is really nervous also.
So I make the introductions and immediately order cocktails to calm everyone's nerves (plus who doesn't want to get their hot chic drunk).
We sit in a booth, it's the male-female-male seating agenda (I know I know readers not very subtle but I do think it's important to start planting the symbolic seeds early in a meet and greet)a nice quite booth at the back of this restaurant. After all this conversation will/could range from the generic "how long have you lived in Virginia" to the sex soaked "do you like cumming on a woman's face".
Everyone hits it off spectacularly, we laugh and joke, swap swinging horror stories and share the erotic successes. Now at this point I have been given no clue as to Nicole's intentions. I have seen her enjoy a meet and greet before only not to be attracted by him sexually. All of which is completely alien to myself as I am a typical dude and would fuck Barbara Bush if she showed up on my meet and greet.
So when Brian excused himself for a bathroom break I leaned in and said "soooo, whatcha think" to which she replied "I like him, he is funny and sexy" "yea, defiantly" "I want to make out with him".
Ok readers "make out with him" is exactly what it sounds like in real life swinging. For us anyway. What it means is that after dinner I will suggest that Brian accompany us to our SUV already parked in a dark corner of the lot (Hey preparation is everything) for a good night kiss.
Nothing more and nothing less.
Here is a quick side story, Nicole once found a guy that made her pussy just tingle in anticipation during drinks at a meet and greet and wanted to fuck him badly on the spot (or in this case take him back to our king-side bed that night). We walked back to the SUV and during a brief, I am talking like first kiss brief connection she turned to me and through her eyes called it all off. I was shocked and when we were alone I asked her what changed so fast. Her reply "when he went in for a kiss he pinched my nipple, HARD" "I couldn't believe he was so forward and he did it uninvited". There you go guys, he went too far too fast and ruined a sure thing, let the husband/BF lead the way, and it makes the women feel safer. And swinging is all about keeping the women safe, happy and comfortable.
So Brian comes back from the bathroom, we chat for a few more minutes, pay the bill and then start heading out. Now at this point Brian has no idea what we want and naturally we have no idea if he will accept out invitation. Since I am the one in charge (see above) I ask him "hey you want to come over to our SUV, Nicole would like to make out with us for a little bit"
His response was a rapid "I would love that"
So we walk over to our SUV, and now the butterflies are starting to flutter a bit for me and I am in like Flynn no matter what the outcome. I know Nicole is going crazy and I can only imagine what's going through Brian's head.
We walk around to the passenger side door and Nicole throws her stuff on the front seat turns around and looks up at me. Mmmmmmm mmmmmmm mmmmm I love to kiss makes me hard like a friggin teenager especially with her fantastic body pressed up to mine. So she and I exchange a few soft delicate lips on soft lips kisses.
We separate and then she turns to Brian, now I have seen this turn awkward also folks. But Brian was smooth and natural and they both let their lips touch in a very sensual exchange.
Nicole switched from partner to partner a couple more times, each time it was just as sexy.
I knew now through our unspoken communication that she was enjoying this and would like to get into the SUV for a bit more of a private make out session. Honestly you would be surprised at people's reaction to a women switching between two dudes kissing in public, to many gawkers and lookie loos.