Do black men secretly like black female dominance? Are there black men into cuckolding? How freaky do black women get behind closed doors? Is black male bisexuality a turn-on or a turn-off for self-admitted kinky black women? Those are the questions I am reading on private discussion groups about black sexuality on Facebook, and I can't help but laugh. The name is Vilma Smites, and I'm a thirty-year-old black woman living in the City of Columbus, Ohio. I am a budding dominatrix and all-around kinky sister with a twisted, hot story to share with you.
I met Bernard James Lamont a while back while walking around the mall. This six-foot-tall, somewhat chubby but still handsome black man with the slick goatee caught my attention. I saw him checking out my booty as I tried on some shoes inside the shoe store. Later, when I went to the food court to grab a bite, the brother approached me. I played it cool, to be sure, but I was definitely interested in Bernard. The brother had a lot going on for him. Master's degree in sociology from Ohio State University, and a nice job as a counselor with the Columbus Department of Social Services. I like a brother who's got his shit together.
Now, to be fair, I've been known to play with brothers from the wrong side of the tracks, but they're not the type I bring home to meet my parents. I didn't work my butt off to pay for school and build a decent life for myself just so I could end up with Mr. Thug. Other dumb sisters go after these guys but not me. I have a bachelor's degree in commerce from Cleveland State University and I'm working on an MBA at the University of Akron. Presently, I work as an account manager at the local bank. I'm the five-foot-ten, curvy and classy, well-dressed and gorgeously dark-skinned sister with the thick glasses who greets you with a smile as you approach my office. By appointment only, of course.
Anyhow, when I'm not at school or working at the bank, I lead a life that my friends, family and co-workers can't even fathom of. I discovered the world of BDSM thanks to my ex-boyfriend Matthew Dixon, a tall, fine-looking brother I met during my freshman year at Cleveland State University. Matthew played baseball for Cleveland State University and attended the local black church, so he had his pick of chicks on campus and off. I like a man who's a challenge, that's why I went after Matthew and got him.
As I would discover, Matthew likes to tie bitches up, gag them and fuck them, and that's what he did to me. With my consent, of course. I won't lie, I did enjoy it, but I also discovered something new within myself through those experiences. I like to inflict pain upon others, and it turns me on sexually. Matthew was my first victim, in a manner of victim. I sweet-talked the macho brother into letting me tie him up, and I shoved a butt plug up his ass while sucking his big ole dick. Yeah, Matthew got one hell of a surprise that night. For me, it was confirmation of a long-repressed desire. I like to dominate men in the bedroom, especially black men.