What makes someone dominant and what makes someone submissive? That's what I'm exploring in this here story. The name is Natasha Tremblay, and I'm a young biracial woman living in the City of Toronto, province of Ontario. I was born in the City of Montreal, Quebec, to a French Canadian father and Haitian immigrant mother. My parents, Neil Tremblay and Jeannine Fleur were never married. I am just the result of a fling, I guess. My mother died during my birth, and I was raised primarily by my father's side of the family. My father married a lady named Jasmine Yamamoto, and had a son with her, my half-brother George. I grew up in a blended, interracial family, to say the least. Growing up in such a family wasn't easy, even in the racially diverse metropolis where I was born.
I grew up to be a five-foot-eleven, curvy beauty with light brown skin, long curly black hair and light brown eyes. A lot of mixed people in North America are considered whitewashed when they embrace the non-minority side of their heritage, and that's a shame. I am half black and half white, and I am proud of both. The fact that I mostly dated white guys in high school and university had more to do with circumstances than anything else. I'm not ashamed of my black side and I'm not whitewashed. I grew up in a mostly white neighborhood, and there weren't a lot of blacks around at the private school I attended either. My first serious boyfriend, Thomas Wilson, was a six-foot-tall, red-haired and green-eyed Caucasian guy of English descent. He treated me really nice, and we had a great time together. After high school, he went to study at McMaster University in the City of Hamilton, Ontario, and I opted for McGill University right here in Montreal. McGill University is arguably the best school in Canada, and I was lucky to get accepted there.
I studied business administration at McGill University, graduating with my bachelor's degree in 2008. I stayed for my MBA, which I earned in 2011. I really wanted to find a job in my hometown but there were no jobs in Montreal. I ended up moving to the City of Toronto, because that's where the jobs were. In Toronto, I reunited with my former boyfriend Tommy, and he was doing pretty good. He'd gotten a degree in economics from McMaster University and was working as an account manager at the Canadian Imperial Bank of Commerce. Not exactly what he wanted to do after graduation but we do what we can to pay the bills, eh? I was happy to see Tommy, and we had dinner together to catch up. Alright, we did more than dinner.
We went back to my place and he fucked my brains out. I did miss Tommy, he had a big dick and he definitely knew his way around the female body. We fucked and sucked the night away, and when morning came, I woke up next to him. Just like old times. Well, that's what I thought, until Tommy dropped a bomb on me. Tommy told me that he was engaged to some blonde-haired white chick named Heather Carlton and he was getting married in a couple of months. When Tommy shared this with me, I laughed because I thought it was a joke. Tommy stared at me. He was dead serious. I tossed my stiletto heel at him, ordering him to get the fuck out of my house if he knew what was good for him. And that was how my first week in the City of Toronto went, ladies and gentlemen.
Looking back, I can't believe how naΓ―ve I must have been to welcome Tommy back into my life and my bed like that. As much as I hate to admit it, I can't let him take the blame for the whole thing. Yes, he's a dishonest bastard but it was my fault for putting myself in this damn position. I should've asked a few questions before jumping into bed with Tommy. I mean, I hadn't seen him in years. I should have known he'd have a woman. He's a good-looking, educated guy with a good job. Guys like that don't stay single for long unless they want to. Tommy can go fuck himself. I decided to move on with my life. I looked for work, and finally, I got a job working for the Royal Bank of Canada. The company that competes with CIBC, Tommy's employers. Got to love the irony. The downtown Toronto branch of the Royal Bank of Canada was very close to the central branch of the Canadian Imperial Bank of Commerce, where Tommy worked. Life is funny like that.
I was making decent money as a bank teller. I mean, I've got an MBA and I'm kind of overqualified for this job but in Ontario, if you're a recent university graduate and you're working in your field, or something close to it, you should count yourself lucky. Most of your former classmates are working at Tim Horton's after graduation because they can't find work in their fields. It's a hard truth that Canadian university and college graduates have to live with, ladies and gentlemen. I decided to enjoy myself in the City of Toronto. It's arguably the most exciting town in all of Canada, although as a Montreal native, I'd beg to differ. In Toronto, I hit the club scene with a vengeance. I met a lot of sexy guys and had fun with them. I went for guys who were the exact opposite of what I normally went for. For a while I dated a Mexican-born construction worker named Enrique Suarez, who neglected to tell me that he had a wife named Maria in Cancun and a son, Little Hector. Men can be such dogs, seriously! I decided that fun with no strings attached was the way to go. If men could do it, us women could not only do it, we could definitely do it better.
Somehow, I got into the fetish scene in Toronto. I found myself fascinated by the BDSM lifestyle. There was so much fun to be had in BDSM circles. I enjoyed watching the scenes at play parties, which I often got invited to. Female dominants spanking their male submissive types in front of an audience. Gay leather daddies fucking their bound male slaves while women watched and cheered. Lesbian couples that fucked each other silly in front of enthusiastic audiences. Oh, yeah. The BDSM world was full of wonderful, kinky fun. It didn't matter what you were into, odds are there were others like you out there. You just had to find them. It's in that world that I met someone who would prove to be very special to me.