The following is a true story from my youth, the names have been altered to protect the privacy of the other participants.
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I had been working with Matt at the local TV station in Dallas for several months and finally broke through his gruff exterior to the nice guy underneath. We hit it off pretty well because we shared a lot of creative interests. Specifically, he was a burgeoning recording engineer and I was an amateur musician and songwriter. We started working in the evenings doing a few recording projects and making music tracks that could be used on the air. We worked at a very small UHF station and custom music was way out of any budget, so our work was very appreciated by the station and they let us use their studio to record for free.
I hadn't met Matt's wife until on night when she came to pick him up after a late recording session. She was very attractive and bubbling over with Southern Charm. She suggested I join them for a late dinner, and I happily obliged. Up to that point I had never looked at Matt in any way other than as a kindred spirit and a good engineer. At dinner I got to know much more about him and his wife Janet. Both were very gregarious when together, an attribute Matt never exhibited when alone. I guess his wife brought out the real Matt.
We all got along very well and the discussion soon turned to more personal subjects. Janet was the first to ask about my "love-life". That was something I had not discussed with anyone at the station before. I told her I favored sex with men, and her eyes lit up. Matt raised an eyebrow and told me he would never have suspected I was gay.
After dinner we said our good byes and I headed home, but not before Janet asked if I'd like to hang out with them the coming weekend. They were lots of fun so I agreed.
We started the weekend Saturday afternoon after Janet got off her morning shift. I met them at their place, just a few blocks from the station. After a beer and a little conversation Janet suggested we go to a movie. I asked what was playing, and she smiled, "I meant and Adult Movie".