It has been about six weeks, since myself and Jen, had our last group session, with our circle of friends and in my case, relatives. Life had settled down nicely. At least from my perspective. We had worked out, the ins and outs, of living together, on a long term basis. Jen's work was going well, now that we didn't have too many distractions, on a regular basis. We continued sessions in the pleasure room. The two of us exploring, our likes and dislikes. Filming the action and critiquing our performances.
News from our circle, continued to trickle in. Sporadically, DVD's appeared in the post. Mostly, featuring mum, up to her usual antics. Lisa gave me regular updates, during our lunch breaks at work. Jen would often join us for our, post work, drinks sessions. It appeared, that Lisa and Malcolm were in almost weekly contact, with my parents. Alternating between their houses, for weekend sessions. Sometimes, John would join them, sometimes it would just be the four of them. Occasionally, when he felt the need, John would arrive at our place, on a Wednesday. We made sure to keep these sessions low key.
I began to sense, that Jen was feeling some stress, or strain. On Friday night, after work, I decided to confront her and try to work out, if there was an issue and if there was anything, I could do about it. As it transpired, there was quite a bit to unpack. Firstly, she was beginning to feel the withdrawal, from the group. Her journey into sexual experimentation, had come a very long way, in a short time. It had then come to a halt. She liked the controlling role and that too, had been removed from the equation. Furthermore, she liked the almost infinite variety, of personality and sexual preference, the group provided. OK, I'm fine for us to make a reappearance. I suppose, this means you and mum in charge. Of course, she grinned. I said, happy now? Not, entirely. If there is more, I'll get some wine.
I returned with some red. I handed her a glass. Isn't it normally me, with the issues? Since we started the circle, you have been the most forward looking and outgoing, of all of us. I think that may be part of the issue, she said. I visited mum, for a chat the other day, when you were at work. She has noticed a big change in me. When I divorced, I was pretty down. I actually think, mum and dad were happy about the split. They thought, I would find another, better bloke and settle down, again. When that didn't happen, they started to worry. I stayed that way, basically, until I met you. Mum in particular, has picked up, as you have, on my changed personality. She took a large mouthful of wine and swallowed.
As you know, I've never spoken to my mum or dad, about sex. I've never heard them. Looking at it, it wouldn't be beyond the bounds, that they hadn't had sex, since I was conceived. Anyway, we were sat having a cup of tea, when mum said, can I ask you a personal question? Go ahead. You seem really happy with Marie. I am. You seem a lot more upbeat, since you got together. Do you have sex? I nearly choked on my tea. Mum! What brought that on? We never even had the birds and the bees talk, when I was younger. I just assumed you had classes at school and learned from your friends and the internet. A fair assumption. In answer to your question, yes, we have sex. We aren't a couple of old spinsters. Where is this going? Mum thought for a few minutes. I need some advice. Shouldn't this be the other way round? She shook her head. I don't have anyone I can talk to, about personal things. I just assume, women your age, know more about this sort of thing, than we do.
Take a deep breath, mum. This was clearly difficult for her, she was blushing and struggling to compile her thoughts. Do you have a problem, or is there something you need to know? A bit of both. You know me and dad have sex, or you wouldn't be here. Check. If I go on, are you going to get disgusted? No, I have had sex with men and now I sleep with a woman, every night. I've been about. OK, we had sex fairly frequently, when we first met, it was alright but that was about it. I didn't always have an orgasm, so I would play with with myself, when Dennis fell asleep. That is fairly normal. That has been the case, for a long time now, about twice a week. About average, I'd say. Recently, I think, since he found out about you and Marie, he seems to get a bit more excited. OK, that is a bit weird but I can deal with it. So, what are you getting at?
He has started talking, when we have sex. What's strange about that? It wasn't normal, for us. He would normally, just climb on, do his thing and get off. A bit disturbing but I understand. Did he not use any foreplay? Mum looked surprised. What? Didn't he kiss and cuddle, stroke your breasts, suck your nipples, lick your vagina and clitoris? Mum went bright red. Nnnno. That sounds disgusting. How do you think I have sex with Marie? Maybe, that is what Dennis is thinking about. He says he wants to stick his willy in my mouth and my bottom. OK, that my be a bit too much information but both of those are not unusual. Really?
I think I need something stronger than tea, before we get any further. Got any booze? There is some whisky, in the cupboard. Should be some ginger ale, too. Want one? She nodded. We both took a drink. Here we go, Jen's sex ed. 101. I'll use anatomical language, rather than the terms we normally use. Any questions, stop and ask. It is no wonder, you have been masturbating. Dad has just been getting his gratification. If you orgasm, you are lucky. All of that foreplay, will will get you aroused and increase the chance of an orgasm. You need to talk to him. A bit of give and take. Negotiate, tell him what you want. Ask him what he wants, which seems to be oral and anal sex. You may agree, you may not, but without talking, you won't sort anything. Having oral sex, is fine. As long as you are both clean, it actually feels great. The person receiving gets the best of it but giving pleasure feels good too. As far as anal goes. That is more difficult. Don't let him just push it in. My ex. did that, it really hurt. You need lubrication. Take it slow and steady. You need to control it, rather than him.
Mum looked gobsmacked. You do all that? And more but that's all I'm saying. Can I ask you, a question, it may have some bearing on things, going forward. Fine. How big is dad's penis? I'm not curious, just looking to help you. About 6 inches, when he is hard. That's alright, not too big. They come bigger? A friend of ours, is 11 inches and this round. I held my fingers up to demonstrate. That makes a lot of things difficult. She was stunned. You alright mum? She walked over and poured another whisky. She had drained hers, I still had half of mine left. You asked the questions, those are Jen's answers. You said anal hurts. I'm not sure about pain. It can be painful if you do it wrong. If you are careful and do it right, it can be wonderful. I think dad gets aroused, thinking that oral and anal sex are a bit naughty.