Joyce and I went to our favorite Chinese restaurant where we could grab a quiet booth and have a leisurely chat about her sexual escapades with Kevin, a man whom we had met through an internet dating service.
I started the conversation rolling:
"Tell me what you really think about Kevin, Joyce. I sensed some hesitancy when I asked if you would like to see him again."
"You know me too well, Honey," Joyce smiled.
"I liked Kevin. He is a sweet man and he gave me a good time. But as I said I am not sure whether I got off so much because of him or partly because I was so horny and sex-crazed that my imagination was in overdrive and I would have exploded for just about anyone. Maybe a mixture of both."
"Do you think you might want to give him a second chance?" I asked.
"Hmmm, maybe, Joyce replied.
"Whilehe helped me orgasm, he lacks a certain finesse that I had been accustomed to receive from you."
"Oh, how so," I asked.
"Two points," Joyce went on to explain.
"You probably did not see it, but when he was going down on me he inserted his thumb in my vagina and his finger in my rear. That gave me quite a jolt and done the right way would have brought me off immediately, but he just thrust both fingers in and out forcefully. He did not gently massage me inside nor did he seek my G spot, which really turns me on, but then again maybe he does not know about that spot. It wouldn't surprise me. Next, when he took me from the rear, he just kept thrusting. No sideways or other movements with his cock nor did he reach around and fondle my breasts or play with my clit."
"Joyce, I did see him thrust his thumb and finger in and wondered about that because I never did it with you. Do you think you can teach him to become a better lover?"
"Yes," Joyce confirmed. " He is very accommodating and I am sure he would do what I asked him to."
Joyce pondered what she was going to say next verey carefully.
"Still - now don't get upset - but I have been fantasizing for years about what it would be like to be ravished by a strong virile man amply endowed. I would like to have a man be in total control and submit to his demands. Our lovemaking was so good that I never got beyond this fantasy but now......," she paused."
"So that is why you wanted to keep Harry on the list despite our misgivings?" I asked.
"Yep, you bet! He seems like the kind of man who would feel a woman's fondest sexual dreams. On the other hand, he also seems like the kind of man who might manhandle and abuse a woman. I could wind up just feeling used and cheap. It's a gamble , I admit , and even if he completely satisfied me I do not know if we could befriend him and meet him on a regular basis. Actually, that is what I want, a lover who can become our friend and share our life as well as have sex with me. Someone we could relax with, entertain, take on trips and invite over to the house overnight."
I saw the direction her thoughts were going and was in synch with them.
"Joyce, that leaves out Kevin, unless there is a side to him we have not discovered. He is an accountant, kind of a mathematical nerd. I do not think we have anything in common with him, but I may be wrong. Maybe he does share some of our same interests, but the problem is that he cannot leave his wife unattended at night and his time is limited."
Continuing, I added, "I do not know about Harry. He is arrogant and pushy. I do not like the guy's personality. Jim is another matter. I am confident we could have a lot of laughs with him. But he is flitty. Not sure how stable a guy he is. I am not even sure he wants a regular sex partner or just wants to add notches to his belt."
Joyce thought a bit and added her assessment. "I think you are right about Harry but I still want to consider him at least once, just for the experience. Maybe Jim could be a temporary fill as I am sure he will get a steady girl or maybe marry and that would complicate our lives too much even if his partner would allow him to continue meeting us."
"Joyce, It does not sound like we have made too much progress. Don't forget we have seven men left from our top ten list. Let's take another look at them, too."
"All right, but I do not want to procrastinate too much, as this episode with Kevin has made me hornier than ever for a stiff cock, so let us do this. Let us go home and write to Kevin, Harry and Jim. In the process of writing maybe we both will get inspired with new ideas and then let us look at the seven others."
So we set off for home and after some additional skull work, Joyce wrote three emails:
TO: Kevin: "I enjoyed our afternoon together and would like to consider meeting you again but my husband and I have some concerns and questions before we firm up another get together. Are you strictly limited to Saturday afternoons? What are your interests and hobbies? We ask because if we are to meet on a regular basis we think it is important to form a friendship. You are a very good lover, Kevin, but would you mind if I guided you more and taught you what pleases me most? Do ask us questions, too. Hugs, Joyce. "
TO: Jim: " I think you would be a lot of fun socially and in bed. Before making up my mind we have some questions. Do you consider our meeting a one-night stand or are you interested in regular get-togethers, preferably some socializing followed by sex? What are your interests and hobbies. We ask because forming a friendship is important to us if you want to meet regularly so we should have some things in common. What do you do for a living? That was not clear to us at our coffee meeting? Feel free to ask quesitons as well, Joyce."
TO: Harry: "Good Evening, Stud lol. Thought a lot about you the last few days. I bet you are a terror in bed. Have some questions before I line up a hot session to see if I can take all of you in my tight opening. I am excited about meeting you but a little scared at the same time. I am worried that I may not be the kind of woman you are looking for, given your broken marriage. What kind of sex will you want? If in the heat of the moment, I am uncomfortable with whatever you want to do will you accept No and a real No? I am not into role-playing rape scenes, for example. Do you want regular sessions or just a one-time fling? We could not tell from our coffee chats but would you also be interested in socializing? If so, tell us about your interests and hobbies. And what do you do for a living? Sorry to ask so much but it is my pussy at stake, right? lol Eager to get your response, Joyce."
We decided to wait until they got those responses before we wrote any more emails, but there was one more potential player we overlooked. I went to bed but Joyce said she would put a draft email to him in the queue, which I could look at and send in the morning. All in all, not a bad day. Joyce got some good loving, released a lot of sexual tensions and hadsome potential lovers on tap.
After a late Sunday brunch, we returned to the computer. Sure enough they had responses to their mail plus 20 new ones. We set the new ones aside and did not deal with them, as They had enough on our plate at the moment.