"I like to fuck Muslim men, especially Black Muslim men with my strap-on dildo," said Mistress Choukri, smiling at the camera. In the basement of her townhouse, located in a quiet corner of the Glebe area of Ottawa, Ontario, she felt quite comfortable being interviewed by a certain reporter. Might as well shed some light about what it is I do, Mistress Choukri thought.
Mistress Choukri saw that her words and tantalizing presence had the reporter riveted. The six-foot-tall, slender and athletic, thirty-something Somali-American Muslim woman was determined to break new ground. Originally from the City of Minneapolis, Minnesota, Mistress Choukri wanted to shake things up in the Canadian Capital.
Logic would dictate that folks in the worlds of Kink and BDSM would be an open-minded and highly experimental bunch. The conservatisms that Mistress Choukri encountered among kinky folks in Ottawa stunned her. The world of BDSM is largely segregated, with Black and brown folks playing over here, while White folks play over there. People avoided one another, and judged each other's kinks. That's simply no way to be...
To Mistress Choukri, the whole thing seemed kind of funny, and by the same token, kind of sad. The same woman who enjoys getting fucked in every hole by a group of men of different races and ethnicities looks down on another woman who has a fart fetish, for example. As if one lady's kink is better than that of another...
Mistress Choukri's explorations of the kink world revealed even greater levels of hypocrisy. The same gay man who enjoys sex exclusively with other men frowns upon two bisexual men and an open-minded woman getting their freak on any which way they can. Apparently, women who enjoy sex with bisexual men make gay men feel threatened...and obsolete.
"Kink is swirling with hypocrites so an honest woman like myself must shed some light on things," Mistress Choukri said, and the reporter remained silent, unsure how to respond. Mistress Choukri shook her head, thinking of the biggest hypocrites she'd seen. The macho man who dominates his female subs looks down on men who enjoy getting dominated by strong women. Apparently, one type of submission is more okay than the other.
Folks in the world of Kink are so hypocritical it's not even funny, at least, that was Mistress Choukri's contention. She recalled feeling appalled when she met a butch lesbian woman, a short-haired, tattooed, muscular dyke, who couldn't admit to her more feminine girlfriend that she enjoyed riding her strap-on dildo. Apparently, even butch lesbians had to live up to the macho bullshit that so many men used to restrict themselves...