Please read after the 4 parts where I visit a naked resort for the first time.
Because it is logically following in time, location and experience where after every new story I become "less shy"
------------------------- Introduction
Most of the time we just stayed at the naturist resort, a huge, safe and fun place to be naked 24/24, but we also drove out to visit an old town nearby to explore some art and little restaurants with local dishes.
Because we travel with a camper we preferred to do that with our bikes, not because we were fans of driving during warm weather, but because we didn't want to drive out with the camper, which would need to get all organized just for a few kilometers, find parking space, and then back, to reorganize again.
With a bike you pass the landscape at a slower pace, and that lets you discover more details. One of the things I noticed on our way back in the evening was a "Swing Club". The neon lights were flashing and I could hear the music from inside.
I had no clue what that really was before Christian explained it to me. I thought about a dance club, for swinging with swinging music.
Christian told me I had to put another meaning or definition to "swinging". He tried to explain to me in a few words what it was, because I honestly never heard of it.
When he told me in short, that couples go there to have sex with other people I was surprised and shocked (do couples really do that?), intrigued and at the same time very curious.
The next few minutes I put my boyfriend to a quick interrogation.
"Did you go to such a club before?" I asked him, "because it seems you know what you are talking about?"
"Yes, a first time with my ex-wife together with another couple, friends of ours, but that was just out of curiosity and nothing really happened".
"Are you sure? You didn't had sex with other people?"
"No we did not - actually we got invited by the other couple to an anniversary of that club, that organized a big party with great food and drinks - so yes, I got seduced with the prospect of eating free lobster!" he remembered.
"And yes, maybe the man had some aspiration to swap with us but further then dancing in our undies, nothing more exciting happened.
But did you like that event? And the swinging thing?"
"It was kinda hot to see all the people you see early in the evening, getting mingled only an hour later to have sex..." he mused.
"But you never did swingeling yourself," I asked, already forgetting the correct wording.
"No we never did, I never did".
"Is it safe to go there?" I asked him.
He laughed: "It's like any other night club: if you go and you don't like the music or the people or atmosphere, you just leave..."
"Why do you ask? You want to go?"
"Yes, I want to see it! I said in a convincing tone.
He told me he was surprised that I sounded to be interested in going there right away, because according to him, normally it's the men that have to do a lot of effort to convince their wives or girlfriends to join them and to visit such a place.
After my first unexpected experience in the naked resort a week before (which I never could imagine that I would do) I thought it would be just another "special experience".
Actually, even after his first explanation I still did not have any way to imagine how it would be, behind the walls of such a "Swing Club".
Anyway, I did not have to do a lot of effort from my side to convince him either, he liked the idea from the first moment that I suggested it.
"Okay, let's do that," he said quickly, as he was afraid I would change my mind.
Next afternoon we biked to check the place from outside in daylight and asked someone who was there about the opening-hours etc.
We decided to go the same evening and I already felt excited.
Before we went, I asked a little bit more explaining to Christian about what to expect there.
He visited a few clubs in Belgium before we met. He told me about couples that want to meet other couples to "swap" partners, other couples come to find an extra woman for their bi-sexual wife, or for a three-some, etc. He also said some come to be watched by others while having sex (that was what he did with his ex - so he said ;-)) and others go there to watch.
As a curious woman, going to such a place, I could identify myself with the last category, so I was more at ease now knowing a little bit more about where I was going.