I know it's unusual for a middle-aged, recent divorcee to vacation alone, but that's exactly what I did, booking an all inclusive five day Caribbean cruise on a high-end luxury cruise line. After a painful divorce, I believed that I deserved it. It was to be a once in a lifetime experience, but what I didn't know then was that my definition of once in a lifetime would never be the same.
The moment I stepped aboard the luxury liner a hostess offered me a glass of bubbly while a capable room steward offered to heft my carry-ons as he escorted me to what was to soon be my home-away-from-home for the five days. I stowed my things in a huge walk-in closet and emerged from my cabin to get the lay of land. As I walked the decks, friendly crewmembers greeted me..... by name. Can you imagine that! I felt special.
After all the provisions and muster drills were over I made my way to the Lido deck and quickly found one of the tiki bars. I ordered the special drink of the day, a reddish-orange colored fruity concoction of some sort. It tasted delicious. I sat on a cushioned barstool as our ship made its way out of Miami harbor.
A woman, who appeared to be about my age, sat on the stool next to me and ordered the same drink. She commented on how beautiful the water was and introduced herself as Kim.
"I'm Nicole," I said, "I'm really looking forward to the next five days."
"So am I," Kim said.
Kim, a petite blond with shoulder length hair and pretty brown eyes, couldn't have stood more than 5'1", about my height. She Kim wore a red polo with blue cotton shorts. I couldn't help noticing her pretty diamond pendant and gold chain draped around her neck, and I complimented her on her good taste. Kim also wore a several thin gold bracelets on her right wrist and one around her ankle. She was a pretty lady.
We got to talking and I learned that Kim was cruising with her husband, Chris. As Californian's, they had never vacationed in the Caribbean. I told Kim that as a Floridian I had been to several Caribbean islands with my ex-husband, and described some of the islands that were on our itinerary.
"You'll need to be our tour guide then," Kim laughed. "And here comes my husband," Kim added.
Chris sat next to Kim and immediately ordered a draft beer. He was a good looking man with strong features and thick, salt and pepper hair. Chris wore a navy blue polo shirt and cotton khaki shorts and tan sandals. Kim introduced me to Chris and we shook hands. They made an attractive couple.
We talked for a while about the grandness of the ship and about the upcoming ports of call. After about a half an hour, Chris and Kim headed back to their cabin to unpack. I decided to hang out to enjoy the solitude and ocean breezes before heading back to my cabin. I could smell Chris's cologne left behind from our handshake, and it smelled really nice.
I took a quick nap after unpacking my garments and then cleaned up and dressed for dinner. I made my way to the Promenade deck and was escorted to my table by a very friendly, and dare I say, very attractive maรฎtre d'. When I arrived at my table, I was pleasantly surprised to see that Kim and Chris were seated at my table. The maรฎtre d' pulled out my chair and draped a white linen napkin on my lap as Kim and Chris welcomed me to the table.
"What a nice surprise to see you, Nicole," Chris said.
"Yes. Good to see you guys too. What a coincidence".
Dinner was wonderful and I learned quite a bit about my newfound friends. Chris and Kim were married for over 20 years and lived south of Los Angeles. Like me, they had two children in their early twenty's who were just getting starting with their adult lives. Chris owned several sporting goods franchises and Kim was working as an elementary school teacher, like me. Given our commonalities, we had an instant connection.
I returned to my cabin and called it an early night, looking forward to spending the next day poolside, reading and relaxing. The idea of some alone time with the newest a James Patterson novel was very appealing.
The first day just flew by and I enjoyed the solitude. After lunch I took a quick nap in my cabin and before I knew it, it was dinner time. I found my way to the dinner table without needing assistance; I was beginning to get the lay of the land. I enjoyed another delicious dinner with my new found friends, and I really enjoyed Chris and Kim's company. When they discovered that I signed up for the same snorkeling excursion in St. Thomas the next day, they suggested that we meet for breakfast then head to the island together. I told them that it sounded like a great plan.
The next day was wonderful. The weather and water were perfect, and the snorkeling was amazing and I spent the entire day with Chris and Kim. They graciously treated me to a nice lunch in Charlotte Amalie. After lunch we decided to walk off some calories by shopping at the straw market in the center of town.
After our walk I decided to head back to the ship to allow Chris and Kim to do some sightseeing alone. I was actually beginning to feel a little like a third wheel, although they never made me feel that way. Back on board, I finished my novel, played some slots in the casino, and headed to my cabin for a warm shower.