I'm not using names, but it seemed everyone knew who we were, but the events of Saturday night are completely true (and only from MY perspective, as you'll find out, there a 7 more views of this story). You can call us the REAL NEWBYS. We had not been to any event of any kind in the lifestyle. As a result, we were pretty nervous. But, the staff and guests made us feel completely at home. (Well as close to home as possible ;)
Of course it was lingerie night and my wife didn't want to get to the lingerie. So, we sat and talked, laughed, and danced. Then we talked to a couple of people. The couple next to us (again no names) She was dubbed Zebra girl by the 'pole dancers' asked if it was our first time at the club and we told them that this was our first time ANYWHERE.
From there, things got interesting. My wife went to the restroom and returned in her lingerie. SWEET! Then she had me ask the DJ to play Prince's Erotic City. After that, we were going to go to the back and see what happened. We knew it was after 11, because the couple 'minding the store in front' were now out back, AND hanging out with our new friends. Erotic City came on and most couples were gone.
We changed really fast and went to the back, looking for an 'open bed'. Well, the curtains were drawn on every bed except the last one. BUT, our new friends and the 'couple in front' wee getting comfortable. So, we sat down and were just starting to kiss, when they said we can make room. "Are you sure?" I asked. And like ancient times, the bodies parted. So, we got naked, on a bed with 2 other couples. Unheard of in our 'real life'.