Guy and I are a Caucasian couple who have been married for sixteen years. We have always had a good marriage and we have two young children who we love dearly. But when I saw my fortieth birthday on the horizon I began to feel that it was time to make changes, to take control of my life and do my own thing for a change.
I have a part-time job as an accounts assistant and I enjoy going out to work. I thought about taking some exams and going full-time. Yes, I might do that but there are other things in life besides family and work. I always was rather attractive to men. I am 5'6" tall, slim with nice curves without my breasts being too big. I have long black hair and blue eyes. I dress carefully and love to show off my slim waist and my curves. I know I don't look forty and I felt that I would like to be appreciated before my looks go.
In the bedroom things have always been all right. After being married this long there isn't any fire between us but we have sex occasionally and it is warm and comforting. But, I found myself looking at younger men and wondering what it would be like to neck with them or rub my body against theirs.
Guy and are are regular church goers and we feel that it is important to involve our children so that they can learn the right values. The people we meet at our church are generally not all that exciting but then a new member of the congregation appeared. He was a tall slim black man called Yemi and he had a captivating smile and always was friendly and had time for everyone. He was about 6' tall and had an athletic build and probably about 32 years old. I found myself thinking about him a lot especially when I was going to sleep at night. I found out that he had recently arrived in London from Nigeria, that he lived alone in a one-bedroom flat and that he worked as an administration assistant for a local company.
I took to taking Guy's cock in my hand when we got into bed and stroking it. He wasn't used to this behaviour on my part but I was feeling something stirring in me and I was working on a plan. I wouldn't do it every night but he was getting more attention than usual. Mostly I would refuse to have sex with him having teased his cock for a while saying I was too tired and needed to sleep. This had the right effect; he became more attentive during the day and when I did allow him to fuck me it was much better than it had been.
After a few weeks of this I began to talk to him while I was stroking his cock and began to introduce the subject of how I had seen this or that attractive young man during the day. I didn't say anything sexual about these men, who were often completely made-up in any case, but I did say how nice they looked or how I had enjoyed talking to them.
At the same time, I was also working on Yemi to attract his attention without being too obvious. I managed to brush my breasts against him while we were both looking at a notice board at church. And, I would wear the right kind of clothes, for example, a tight fitting top that showed the barest suggestion of cleavage. I was being suble, just enough to get him interested without it being obvious what I was doing. I worked it so that we were both on a committee together on a Wednesday evening. I was the chair person and I dressed smart and understatedly sexy for the meetings and I noticed that he looked at me often - so what, I Iooked nice.
After I had been working on my plan for a couple of months, one night in bed as I was stroking my husband's hard cock I said, " You know, darling, I have been wondering what it would be like to have a lover. I mean, I would never want to change what we have between us but I wonder what it would be like to be appreciated for being just a woman and not as a mother or wife." Guy didn't say anything and I didn't want to make love that night though, strangely enough, he did.
The following night as I stroked his throbbing cock absent mindedly I said, "You know what I was saying about having a lover? Well, I think that I would like to have a man as a friend to take me out of my humdrum existence from time to time. Nothing dramatic, just a friend." Again, Guy was silent but this time I let him make love to me and I was ever so good to him and he had a really good orgasm.
The next time I saw Yemi at church so that I could have a talk with him I steered the conversation round to my own life. I told him how I was stuck in a rut and needed something to take me out of myself. I had already found out that he didn't have a girlfiend in London having left one behind in Nigeria. I casually suggested, in a playful way, that he could take me out one evening to "give me a break". He wasn't sure if I was joking but I could tell by the way he smiled at me that he was intrigued.
A few days later, we were all at a church meeting. I took Guy on one side and I told him to go and tell Yemi that he wanted him to take me out the following Saturday night and that he should say something like "and stay out as late as you want." I saw him talking to Yemi on the other side of the room and I knew that he had followed my instructions. Guy never questioned me or commented on my actions at all. I felt that he was enjoying the new me and that he was impressed and aroused by my new independent spirit. I spoke to Yemi before the evening was over and arranged to meet him at a restaurant in town.
On the Saturday evening I prepared myself carefully. I had a tight black sweater and a shortish skirt, black tights a stylish jacket and some very sexy high heeled shoes. I think I looked pretty good. We met and had dinner. Over dinner we talked easily and flirted a lot. Yemi asked me what my husband thought about our evening out and I told him that he was very pleased that Yemi was entertaining me and giving me a break. We flirted with our eyes and laughed and smiled. The tips of our fingers found each other and we stroked and squeezed each other's ahnds over the table.
When the meal was over and we were about to leave the restaurant, Yemi seemed a little hesitant. He didn't know what was supposed to happen next. I think he expected me to ask him to take me home in a taxi and say good night to him. I had other plans.