This all started when I went to my dr for a routine physical and the dr wanted to test everything including testosterone levels, I didn't think anything about as I had always had a high sex drive. The results came back and turns out I was borderline low T and the dr said we can try out testosterone replacement and see where it goes. I thought about it and said why not. A few weeks into it I noticed my sex drive was higher, morning wood was back and I was horny all the time, my problem was that my wife's sex drive was heading the other way because of some other factors.
I had always masturbated a couple of times a week usually to porn where the woman looked like my wife as I always fantasized about watching her with another man, now I found myself masturbating two sometimes three times a day and didn't need porn to watch, I could get hard in a second and just think about her having sex would make me cum with little effort.
This continued and I started realizing I am jerking off too much and need to fix this.
I had stumbled across some chastity porn one time and saw where a cock cage could keep a man from getting and hard on and jerking off, so I did some research to see if it was really something you could safely wear longterm as I thought that's just porn and nobody wears that for long. Turns out I was wrong as it is a complete lifestyle for some and runs from femdom bondage to female led relationships where the wife controls the man's orgasms and he caters to her orally. I though well that's interesting to play with a bit but I just want to slow down my jerking off, not wonder when I can cum again.
I knew my wife Jojo wasn't into Bdsm and that's what it sounds like at first so I didn't want to tell her about, especially until I tried it and could see if i could even wear it longterm.
I did some research and bought a cheap plastic cage and put it on it felt really amazing and turned me on as the thought of me wearing it around without my wife knowing was kind of hot, sometimes I would wear it around her and fantasize that she knew and would tease me about being in chastity and her having to find someone else to fuck since I was locked up, that turned me on too.
I was always afraid to tell her about the cage since I didn't know how she would feel about it, we have dabbed into some kinky stuff like pegging and she really got into it for awhile, she fucked my ass multiple times in four different states but we just stopped doing it one day.
Everything was great as far as wearing the cage as I could sleep in it no problem, The problem is that I have the key and can unlock it anytime I got desperate enough and jerk off which defeats the purpose. I was pretty good about only jerking off every 3 of 4 days but sometimes more.
One day I had taken the cage off to take a shower and shave everything and when I got out of the shower I could hear her on the phone so I figured I can just pop this cage back on real quick she won't come in here.
As I was looking down trying to like everything up I looked back over my shoulder and she was standing there, I pulled up my boxers quickly but it was too late, she said what the hell is that and I stammered through an explanation about excessive masturbation and my testosterone levels.
She looked at me and said let's see it so I pulled down my shorts and watched her examine my locked up penis, after she played with it for a second she said ok if that's what you need to slow down your jerking fine, let me have the keys and I hold them until you need to be let out. I said ok but I need to cum every three days or so, she looked at me and said we will see. I thought hmm she is gonna tease me with this for a bit and give me the key in a couple days.
I found out a few days later my wife had been looking into chastity and key holder stories and decided she wanted to play the game a bit and see how far we could push it. I didn't know what all that would entail but I had a good idea since I had seen chastity porn.
The next day she got out of the shower and called me into the bed room and laid out on a towel, she said I needed to make her cum if I wanted to get unlocked, I jumped at the chance because I love to go down on her even though it's not something she really like to do often, plus I wanted to cum also.
When I had finally Made her squirt and cum I looked up and ask if I could get the key so I can cum too. She looked at me and said it's hasn't even been a week, I think we need to give it at least two weeks to build up your tolerance and you will have a better orgasm that way.
I thought hmm another week I can manage especially since I don't have the key. The cage is plastic and I am quite capable of removing it but I figured let's see what happens.
My wife started walking around the house without a bra and she has the most perfect tits I've ever seen and she knows I'm a boob man, I could see the contour of her breast when she turned and the nipples sticking out, she knew what she was doing.
We have a neighbor who comes over to have a beer with me on the back porch fairly regular, well one night we are sitting out drinking and my wife comes out with a low cut t shirt, no bra and I can see a chain and the top of my key just above the cleavage she is showing, I am like wow I know he is looking at her boobs, hope he doesn't know what that key is.
My wife doesn't hang out outside with us since she quit smoking but this time she hung around an kept bending over the table cleaning up and really leaned over him to get the ashtray and dump it.