Hello dear reader and welcome to A Practical Guide To Throatfucking! In this lesson we'll go over what throatfucking is, why it's done, and how to do it in a manner that is fun and enjoyable for all parties involved. To start, let's define throatfucking. You might be thinking it's the same thing as deepthroat. Not so! Both deepthroat and throatfucking can be described as a blowjob that involves the cock (or silicone cock substitute) going deep enough to penetrate the throat, but a deepthroat blowjob in general tends to be slower, more focused on physical pleasure and, while difficult in it's own right, is generally easier and safer than a proper throatfuck. As you may have already guessed, throatfucking tends to be much more aggressive, generally with the man taking complete control of the situation oftentimes even restricting their partner's movement so much that they have no choice but to take it. Of course, I say "the man" takes control but naturally the reality is that just like anyone can suck a cock, anyone can have a cock. In today's particular examples we won't be using any dildos, or cocksleeves but it's important to know that those options are available for those who need or want them.
Before we go any further, let's make the assumption that everyone participating is a consenting partner, not being coerced or forced. Why do I make this distinction? Well, the fact is throatfucking is an act that inherently takes away the power and agency of one of the participants. As mentioned earlier, throatfucking often involves extremely aggressive play that can restrict anything from speech, to movement, even to breath. Naturally this can appear from the outside like abuse, which is why it's so important to talk with your partner before you try this. The fact is that unless these details are discussed in advance there's no effective way to communicate properly if your throat is stuffed. Even if things like hand signals are worked out ahead of time, the choking that comes along with a cock being shoved down someone's throat often causes an instinctual reaction to push the other person away, or even to flail. This can be dangerous of course, and that danger shouldn't be underestimated, but it can also cause a play session to be cut short by one or the other partner panicking. If this happens to you, make sure to take time after your session to ensure that everyone involved feels safe and cared for. This is of course standard practice regardless of whether your play session (or scene) goes well or not, but it's extra important if things go bad.
Now we're almost ready for the fun stuff, but before we get to the how, let's talk about the why. As you may have already guessed, a lot of the reason why someone might go for throatfucking as opposed to a deepthroat blowjob involves Power Exchange. The short version is that the person getting their throat fucked is giving up their power and agency to the person who is doing the fucking. They are allowing themselves to be reduced to a hole for the other person to use. Odds are you fall into one of two camps: people who have no idea why someone would want that, or people who are already getting turned on at the thought. If you're in that first group then this guide probably isn't for you, but if you still want to give it a try out of curiosity or wanting to please a partner feel free to read on, just know that it's not for everyone and you shouldn't try to force yourself to enjoy something if it's not for you.
OK! That's enough of the setup let's get to the fun part. How does one properly fuck a throat? Let's start with size. Throatfucking tends to work best for men with average size cocks from 4 to 6 inches in length. This is long enough penetrate the throat while being easier for someone with less training to handle. For someone with a smaller cock, for instance, my neighbor Greg here who measures a mere 2 and a half inches even when hard, I'm afraid throatfucking is off the table, at least without using an artificial aid, but as I mentioned we won't be using those today. Don't worry about Greg though, he's a cuckold and is perfectly happy to be tied to a chair with his wife's panties stuffed in his mouth. Isn't that right Greg?
"MMMRRRMH!"
He's enjoying himself. Now, as I mentioned, this tends to work best for someone of more average size, so for our first demonstration let's introduce my neighbor Greg's wife Anne and her son Kirk.
"Hi everyone! So happy to be here today"
"I can't wait to fuck my mom's throat!"
Easy there Kirk. Your mom's got a fair amount of experience with this but don't forget that your dad is a little needle dicked cuck who's currently getting off on watching his wife get passed around like a party favor so you're going to have to help her get warmed up. Go ahead and grab her hair.
"mmmm."
You can do better than that Kirk. Grab closer to her scalp, get a good grip and pull her head back, don't yank, just pull it back enough to let her know who's in control here.
"OHhh Fuck!"
See that Kirk! Your mom is a submissive little whore. She dropped to her knees with barely any effort. Now of course this sort of thing won't work on everyone, just people who already want to submit, but as long as you keep up your confidence and know what you're doing you'll find that applies to a lot more people than you'd think. Now Anne, I want you to go ahead and take your son's underwear off and describe his cock for us.
"Mmmm. Well he's not the biggest I've seen... BUT! He's about twice the size of my pathetic husband. And I love a good 20 year old cock, stays so much harder so much longer than him. He curves up a little, but his head is a big swollen purple. Oh poor baby you must want to cum on your mommy's face so bad."
Now hold on there Anne. I know you're an eager slut but that curve you mentioned could prove to be a challenge. Go ahead and take your son as deep as you can go.
"Gllllck!"
See. You haven't been practicing and that curve triggered your gag reflex. Don't worry though. Most gag reflexes can be overcome with regular practice or some chemical assistance in the form of throat spray that you can find at any drug store. Since our reader might not have throat spray on hand let's talk techniques on how to help guide that cock in. Time for a fun biology fact! Did you know that the spit in the back of the mouth near the throat is thicker and slimier than in the rest of the mouth? This is because of a number of different things but the practical effect is that it makes for a handy lubricant when you're trying to get a large object down there. Kirk I want you to go ahead and grab your mom's head and slide in there slowly until you feel the back of her mouth then hold it there.
"Oh my god! Her mouth is so hot and wet! I can't believe I'm fucking my mommy's mouth!"
Kirk, I'm gonna need you to calm down, we haven't even gotten to the fun part yet and we don't need you painting her tonsils. Keep your pace slow and thrust just until she starts to gag again. Good. Now pull out a bit then do it again. You don't want to slam it in there, just kinda gently poking the back of her throat. Keep at it until you feel your cockhead slip past that resistance in the back and then hold it there until she pushes you away.
"OH MOM! I feel it! My cock is in your throat! UHNN!! OH FUCK!"
That looked close. Good thing you pushed when you did Anne. Looks like your son is about ready to burst. Go ahead and give him a few strokes so you can feel the difference in the spit.
"OH! I see what you mean. It's so much smoother than my normal spit. It's almost like lube!"
How's that feel Kirk?
"So good! So much better than when I used mayonnaise."
