Anyone reading my previous missives may have wondered how it is that I am so determined that the other participants in my encounters should enjoy the experience at least as much as me and also maybe what set me on the path of sexual pleasure. I freely admit that I can also be rather manipulative.
After thinking about it for a while and remembering early events in my sexual life I am now ready to write about my first encounter and how it has influenced my preferences ever since.
As you may recall I was sent to live with my uncle in Norway when I reached secondary school age. My uncle was a career man and strongly driven to do his best for the family business that he inherited. He had been late to marry as he didn't have time for relationships but when he did it was to a bride much younger than himself. The problem with the arrangement was that he was still driven by the business and had little time for his marital duties, other than paying for a beautiful house overlooking DrΓΈbakk Sund. A very exclusive area popular with shipping magnates.
When I arrived in the house Aunt Marit paid me special attention. I suppose I was the child she never had although there couldn't have been more than 15 years age difference. The situation remained that way until I reached the age of 18.
She had already started to introduce alcohol free beer and wine into my diet. I got used to the taste but not how to control my intake. She only ever gave me one glass with my meal.
My birthday came and we had a party at home. Me, some friends and my aunt. My uncle, of course, was on a business trip, I think to London. While Marit was out of the room my friends commented about how plain she was. I didn't think so. She was my fantasy woman.
When all my friends had left, my aunt and I relaxed on a balcony overlooking the water. As the evening drew to a close I realised I was quite light headed. I took it to be because of the excitement of the party but now believe that my aunt had switched to real wine after my friends had gone. I excused myself and went to bed.
A while after I had lain down, naked as always, Aunt Marit came in. I wasn't startled because she sometimes came to say good night. I saw that she was wearing a scanty nighty. She came over to me and stroked my hair, then she started to wonder down my neck and back before moving round to the front. I was enjoying the new sensations more than I had imagined in my youthful fantasies and didn't complain, even when she started to touch my penis. I was already pretty erect before she got that far.
She took my hand and guided it to her inner thigh, just above the knee. Nothing to shock me too much. She guided my movements as I stroked her and gradually moved my hand up her leg. I remember very well how my excitement level jumped when I felt altogether softer and different flesh. I was encouraged to press and stroke in a rhythmic motion. My aunt's hand guided my middle finger into a cleft and I felt a wet warmth that was totally unexpected. My other fingers pressed on the soft flesh on each side. This was a milestone.