By the time of our marriage roughly two years ago, my wife and I had already been discussing swinging for a few years. When I first met Nicole I had decided that I wouldn't hide anything from her. I'd come off of several relationships that had involved too much mistrust and doubt, and so when I totally opened up with her when we had first begun dating, I was rather surprised when Nicole told me that she was fine with my love of pornography and sexuality. She didn't even balk when I told her that I'd recently created a profile on an online swingers' site and had planned on meeting a middle aged couple the same weekend that we met. In fact, Nicole became very turned on after looking at my profile and the profiles of others that I'd been emailing and insisted that we make a profile as a couple. After only two days of dating, we'd already begun pursuing a swinging relationship with other couples and select singles!
Somehow things had never come to fruition, though. It seemed that each time one of us would get up the nerves to actually meet with other like minded people, one of us would get cold feet. We eventually decided that we'd wait until after we were married before opening our bedroom to others. Unsure of what insecurities or jealousies that swinging might expose, the logic was that we'd both be more certain of ourselves and each other if we allowed ourselves to settle into married life before we started having sex with people outside of our marriage. Six months after our wedding, each of us only 23 years old, we took the plunge into "the lifestyle."
Nicole has always attracted others eyes. Perhaps its because she's 5'3'' tall or because of her perky 34B-cup breasts, but somehow others seem to frequently think she's still in her teenage years. Even I must admit that she has a unique combination of womanly maturity and youthful innocence. So it came as no surprise to me when I saw Tim, the male half of the first couple we met, smiling from ear to ear. I made sure to cup her full, round ass cheek in my hand and give it a little squeeze when Tim first looked up and down my wife; I added a crooked smirk and nod to him. Looking back on that first time, it's almost hard to believe. My wife, who can seem so innocent and even naive, pushed me to meet with Tim and Amy. When we were invited into their hot tub later that night, it was my wife who was first to strip down. And after soaking for a while, it was my sweet, no-so-innocent wife who whispered into my ear that she wanted me to fuck Amy, a 44 year old stranger, with everything I had. We spent hours in different rooms, folding into a mix of nerves and lust that is hard to describe, and when we drove back home early that morning, Nicole insisted on sucking my now tired dick, stating that she wanted to taste a bit of Amy on me. We had become swingers and we were thrilled.
After two wonderful years of marriage, we'd been with three other couples for a total of about ten encounters. We'd both been living very busy lives as we completed our graduate studies and establishing our careers, and it was often difficult to meet with couples who were "for real." Often we'd email back and forth with couples that we thought we'd get along with, only to suddenly loose contact with them or meet them in a public place to find out that the supposed "couple" was a single man and nothing like described. It was only recently, after moving across the country to be closer to family, that my wife had become more receptive to something that I'd stated as a desire from the start of our relationship-- swingers' clubs. Whenever we'd met with others, I had been the one that had spent most of the time online, arranging for things. All along I'd found the process somewhat of a nuisance and believed that going to a club would make all of the arranging much simpler. Instead of using emails, then phone calls, then arranging schedules and meeting in public, then going to a house, etc., we could just meet a bunch of like-minded couples and if we clicked, use a room at the club or head back to one of our homes. Still, Nicole had said she would be uncomfortable with the atmosphere, etc., and we'd never gone. After the move, though, Nicole spoke of how she wanted to start learning to get out of her comfort zone more often. Though she'd always been fun and relaxed, she told me of how she wanted to learn to be more spontaneous and less controlled. Nicole was willing to try going to a sex club.
Life back near family had been much better all-around. We had yet to find full-time jobs in our fields, and so we spent the first few months living with my in-laws. I've always considered myself blessed to have the kind of parents-in-law that are a dream come true. My father in-law, Steven, is more of a friend than anything and he's given me respect from day one. Early on he told me that he'd only known a few guys who didn't change who they were or how they behaved when they came around their wives or girlfriends. "It's about being honest, Scott," he told me, "if you're honest in life and relationships, and if you're on the same page as the ones you love, there's not much room for things to go sour." I never would hide the fact that I was a flirt, or that I checked out other woman, or anything else from Steven. I occasionally would even flirt with his wife in front of him, joking with her that sometimes I thought Freud was right about the Oedipus complex, but I didn't know if in-laws counted.
It was hard for me not to flirt with Sarah, my mother-in-law. If ever there was a daughter that was a splitting image of her mother, it was Nicole, and that was a good thing, a really good thing! Sarah was a few inches taller than Nicole, and her breasts were most likely a cup size larger than my wife's, but they both had the same, great, full ass that just begged to be squeezed in each of my muscular hands. Sarah was an avid workout enthusiast, and it showed. She would frequently come upstairs from her treadmill and head directly outdoors to work in the garden for an hour or two. The result was a 48 year old woman who was every bit as toned and tanned as her 23 year old daughter. Even their voices had very similar qualities. Better still, Sarah was more than willing to flirt right back at my advances. She frequently would compliment both Steven and me, saying things like, "I'm so lucky to have the two most handsome men I know living with me," or complimenting us on our matching 6'3'' frames. Once after a few drinks Sarah even commented to me that, if I matched her husband's size in more than height alone, she could understand why Nicole was always happy with me. I love my wife and would never leave her for anyone, at all, ever, but I must admit that in some ways Sarah's personality actually matched mine a little better on paper than Nicole's did, as we were both more outgoing and flirtatious by nature than either of our partners.