Author's note: One study, published in 2019, tied better sexual communication with greater sexual satisfaction. "More than 50% of women reported they had wanted to communicate with a partner regarding sex but decided not to; the most common reasons were:-
not wanting to hurt a partner's feelings, not feeling comfortable going into detail, and embarrassment.''
But the survey results also showed that ''those who did share their fantasies with their partners reported having the most satisfying sex lives''.
This story is about one couple who unconventionally used communication to increase their sexual pleasures. Their story began in 'Irene Reveals all to Husband, Parts 1 and 2.'
The story continues:-
PART 3.
Oscar thought about the last two months. The sex with his wife had never been better with Irene wanting it as much as Oscar. However, despite feeling happy there was a concern about tomorrow, a situation which, Oscar felt, might upset the relationship with his wife and he began to think of what might happen next.
He looked at Irene, asleep, her wavy reddish-brown hair partly covered her face, her full breasts on display. She used to be very shy about sex, not wanting to talk about it, reluctant to try out new positions. She had changed. Last night they had watched their homemade porn movie. It was erotic today as it was when it was made two months ago. And yet, he was worried that Irene might soon feel different towards Oscar because her lover, Matias, was coming back tomorrow from his home in the Caribbean.
Oscar reflected on when young Matias had first arrived and changed their lives for the good. His parents in the Caribbean wanted their son to attend university in Europe. As Oscar and Irene were uncle and aunt to Matias, and they lived in the city where the university was located, it naturally fell on Oscar and his wife to look after their nephew.
Irene and Matias had become lovers but instead of Irene attempting to keep it a secret from Oscar, she had told her husband. The detail of their meetings as told to Oscar had had a revival effect on the husband and wife sex lives. Instead of Oscar rejecting his wife, their sexual relationship was rekindled.
Then Matias returned to his home during the university summer break which left Oscar and Irene enjoying each other for the last two months while their nephew was away. With Matias returning and flying in the next day, Oscar guessed that Irene would want to regularly see her lover again except for one important fact. Matias was bringing his younger sister and this was bound to have an impact on everybody.
The following morning, on their way by car to the airport, Oscar asked Irene, ''Have you any idea what she's like?''
''I haven't seen her for years. My sister said that Alma had just left school and wanted to travel. The plan,'' said Irene, ''is for Alma to live with Matias until she moves on to other parts of Europe. Apparently, brother and sister get on well together.''
''How will this affect your relationship with Matias?'' Oscar's question was a sign of the communication that Irene and Oscar had achieved, an openness about sex with no secrets.
''It's over between Matias and me because my nephew is bringing his sister and they want to share an apartment together. Whatever I did with my lover must remain confidential because it was incest and must not happen again. If Alma finds out she'll tell her parents which will be a disaster.'' Irene sounded tearful. ''I can't bear the thought of my sister finding out that her son and I made love all the time AND we made a video of us!''
''With my help.'' Oscar didn't quite believe he'd taken part in the film.
They parked the car at the airport and waited at Arrivals. Matias came through first wheeling his bag. Now age 19, he seemed to have matured slightly, more confident, more handsome. His dark eyes and hair which touched his collar and his tanned skin still made him look like a beach boy surfer. Oscar felt a bolt of adrenaline by just looking at him as the memories flooded back. Irene looked flushed and nervous.
Twenty yards behind came Alma. His niece reminded Oscar of the singer Ariana Grande but without the long flowing ponytail. Alma had espresso-coloured eyes and her straight hair hung either side of her face to her boobs. Her lips were full and the point of her tongue occasionally licked her lower lip.
The journey back into the city was full of excited chatter while Oscar remained quieter as he drove the car. The apartment that Irene had secured for her nephew and niece was where they drove to and, once inside the apartment, Irene stayed with the others to help them settle in and to take them to the local supermarket. Oscar soon left the others and he walked back home which was only 15 minutes away.
Several hours later, having had a family supper, Irene took Matias and Alma for a stroll along the promenade while Oscar looked after the children. Eventually, Oscar and Irene were alone in bed and able to talk privately.
He said, ''Matias still has that playful manner of his like a boy but innocently charming. He has smouldering eyes for you though.''
''He's a naughty boy. Did you notice his hand touch me from time to time? Mind you he was careful to make sure nobody was looking. But on the promenade this evening he hugged me several times saying how happy he was to be back.''
''What did Alma say?'' Oscar found Alma a softer personality compared to her brother, more calm but observant.
''Oh, she laughs a lot in a girly way. She held my hand sometimes like a child and mother. I don't think Alma has any idea that Matias was more than my nephew.''
''How old is Alma?''
''18 last week.''
Oscar did the maths. ''Your sister had her children in quick succession. You can sense our nephew and niece love each other's company. Do you think Matias wants to carry on being your lover?''
Irene lay on her back and whispered to the ceiling, ''When Alma was dipping her feet in the sea Matias had his hand on my bottom and asked if his seed had made me pregnant. I refused to tell him.''
''Why?''
''Because when he knows I'm not pregnant he'll want to try again.''
For some strange reason, Oscar felt disappointed. ''I can't blame Matias for wanting you. You are a sexy woman with curves in the right places and gorgeous legs. Besides, it was as a result of your lover that our sex life took off.''
''It's impossible, darling husband, to contemplate such things when we have Alma to think about.''