ABOUT MODERN MOTHERHOOD
Modern Motherhood is the prevailing parenting style of the late 2020's in which mothers get deeper involved for longer in the upbringing of their sons than in the recent past. Due to the overwhelming power of social media, disruptive COVID-19 pandemic a decade ago and lack of oversight in the virtual universe, boys and young men need to be physically and emotionally supported by their mothers as they grow up and mature. Modern moms counter and balance the pressure that virtual reality puts on their young men. They correct the misinformation that the boys are fed by pointing out facts and setting examples. They listen, talk, touch, and love their youngsters to complement their impersonal virtual 'life'.
The distorted messages and curated images about sex and relationships prevalent in social media are of major concern. To mend that, modern mothers start dressing provocatively for their sons to evoke lustful feelings and introduce sex when their sons are ready for that. It is now the norm that mothers take their sons' virginity when they reach adulthood, often on their 18th birthday, on prom night, Valentine's Day, or another suitable occasion.
Making and becoming a man is a milestone that mother and son look forward to in Modern Motherhood.
INTRO
My son, husband and I live comfortably in a well-to-do suburb of a city in North America. My husband spends a lot of hours during the week in an office downtown, while I work part-time from home and our only child is an 18-year-old high school senior. We are a happy family that has adapted well to the huge changes in our society, upending many people's lives over the last ten years.
COVID-19 and online classes have changed some of the high school traditions too. Prom is again a major event, but it is evolving. Following the recommendations of psychologists, based on tons of research, many mothers are now their sons' prom date. I too will be my son's prom date instead of a girl his age. Some fathers accompany their daughters for prom, but that is a recent trend, still controversial and not popular in our community yet.
I started getting ready for prom about six months ago. I went back on the pill and had myself checked by a gynaecologist specialised in Modern Motherhood. With some of the other prospective mother-prom dates, I started exercising, did weights and even ran a 10K. Fresh fruits and vegetables replaced most of the processed foods that I used to eat. And I spent the afternoons of the last two weeks to tan in the spring sun. I am physically and mentally in excellent shape again and feel ready to make prom night for my son perfect.
PROM DAY
Friday has arrived! Prom is tonight. I wake up a little bit earlier than usual with butterflies in my stomach. Quietly, I go downstairs to make coffee and prepare breakfast for the men in our family. As the coffee is brewing, I hear that my husband is getting up too, heading for the shower. I set the table for three and pour some coffee in my husband's favourite cup to surprise him with fresh coffee in the bathroom.
Upstairs, I first knock on my son's door to warn him to get up so that he does not miss the school bus. To my surprise he is awake already, perhaps he is excited about today too. Then I scoot over to the master bedroom and onwards to the ensuite bathroom where I hear the shower already running to hand the mug to my husband.
I catch him just before he steps into the shower. "Good morning darling," he muses as he hugs me tightly with his naked body. "You were up early today. Are you looking forward to our son's prom tonight? You are such a good modern mother to be his date. I love you very much." I smile and kiss him hard on his lips. We both know that tonight, boundaries will be broken, and I am very happy that he is supportive and understanding.
The three of us enjoy the scrambled eggs and toast that I made. I ask my son if he has packed for the night already and he smiles "of course, mom! Prom is going to be the best. I took the small black suitcase from the garage and packed everything except for the tux and shirt. Those are on the bed, ready to go."
"Excellent," my husband and I respond in unison. We look at each other and laugh. We all want prom weekend to be perfect. On his way out, my son goes over to hug his father. "See you tomorrow, dad." Looking for a hint of hurt or jealousy in my husband's eyes, I see none. He is a strong man. "Please come home from school as early as you can," I plead. We don't have much time to get ready before prom." My son nods and blows me a kiss as he always does at the door.
My husband waits for the front door to close before he speaks up: "I love you and I love our son very much. I notice how you keep looking at me for clues about how I am feeling. Please don't worry. Don't think about me tonight or tomorrow or any time that you will be with our son. There is no need. Much like you, I have read up on Modern Motherhood research and know what is best for you, for him, for us and for me. I now know that mothers are built to satisfy all men in the family. My sexual peak was twenty years ago when I could have taken on multiple lovers. Yours is now. Enjoy it, use it to teach our son everything he needs to know. Only you can do that for him. Give him what he needs, wants, and deserves. Care for him. Be the modern mother that you are."
A tear swells up in my eyes and I dash over to hug my husband tightly. "Thank you, thank you for your support and love. You are a great man. We will be back on Saturday afternoon, and I will tell you everything. I have made sure that you'll receive all the prom pictures as they come out." He grins and answers: "No need to tell me anything. We have been married nearly twenty years -- I know everything that I need to know. Make prom perfect and have fun. I have planned to go golfing with friends from work and the neighbourhood tomorrow. I will probably stay at the club afterwards for some drinks. Perhaps I take you and junior out for dinner tomorrow evening at that restaurant at the lake?" I nod my happy yes.
After my husband has left for work and I have the house to myself, I do my work-related tasks as quickly as I can, still in pyjama. By 11 AM I am done.
I turn my attention to what lies ahead and remember the advice that psychologists give mothers for the big day. I am very organised and believe that I am well prepared. I am excited, looking forward to connecting with my son at the deepest level. I identified my son's preferences regarding clothes, colours, and material. With some other modern mothers, we bought new dresses and appropriate lingerie in a specialised store a couple of weeks ago. And while sunbathing I spent hours planning prom night step by step, rehearsing conversation and considering possible stumbling blocks or concerns from either one of us.
Meticulously, I collect the many things that I may need tonight or tomorrow. I also pack things that my son may have forgotten. I put my son's tuxedo and my dress in a single garment bag.