At this stage I was interacting with my father-in-law (Jim) and my mother-in-law (Edith) with the intention of me fucking my wife's mother. Worse than my cuckolding of Lilly was that it would be filmed as an artistic video project.
Jim, Edith and I are members all members of a private swimming club. Although Edith is a lot older than me, she looks good in a bathing suit. She has large breasts and makes the most of them when not in a swimming costume. Nature has been kind to Elsie and although her face has a few crows feet it is still beautiful. Lilly is petite and so her mother's large bosoms are a great attraction to me. My wife is a prude and Jim and Edith are free spirits. I am less prudish than Lilly but more prudish than Jim. I would never in a million years invite someone to fuck my wife. Jim was happy to broach the subject with me.
As Jim told me "Lots of men want to fuck a mother and a daughter. Few are given the opportunity to have an affair with their wife's mother and have the father's blessing and his active participation."
I didn't ever think that I would be unfaithful. Lilly is much younger than I am. So I guess I instinctively feared that she might take a lover more her own age. But here I was planning to be the dastardly villain in our marriage.
LEGAL DEFINITION OF INFIDELITY
Many would call this planning an infidelity. But, legally speaking, infidelity occurs "when a person feels that their partner has violated the relationship norm by interacting with someone who is not a part of their relationship".
I had already made "a breach of trust and/or violation of agreed overtly or covertly agreed norms of marital exclusivity".
If I were to tell my wife about my planned infidelity it would, legally speaking, be termed emotional abuse.
THE DOWNSIDE OF INFIDELITY
Apparently men are more distressed by sexual infidelity, while women are more upset by emotional infidelity. But that doesn't accord with the feelings of my clients. Whether a man or a woman they feel anger and loss equally. Even the clients who have been unfaithful try to justify themselves to me. Often the adulterer wants revenge from the wronged party, which is one of the strangest part of many divorces.
One man (not my client) spent £50,000 on contesting the ownership of the dog. He didn't actually want the dog but it was the last weapon he had to use against his wife. It held up the divorce for ages, which stopped her getting remarried. This was all that the man wanted. Presumably he thought spending £50K was worthwhile to make his wife's life a little bit more difficult.
It is the clashes over parent's rights to visit and care for their children that require the wisdom of Solomon. Luckily we don't have a child. But if we did, I recognise that this could be a sticking point even though I would want a quickie divorce.
PREPARING FOR A DIVORCE
