Part 1
Richard's Story
My wife Vicky and I welcomed our son's choice of a life partner into our home in Sydney, Australia a few years ago now. It was 2002 and Daniel had been away for two years, doing the travelling that we urged him to embark on before even thinking of settling down to domestic life and marital bliss. He initially spent a year working in England, then did some touring through much of Europe before finding himself with another work opportunity in Canada.
Vicky and I had been so excited to welcome him home. He flew in just in time to celebrate his 24
th
birthday with us. We had missed out on his 22
nd
and 23
rd
celebrations so we eagerly organised a party and invited a bunch of his buddies and a few of the girls he had known at school or in his early work days who had blossomed into very charming young women.
I sensed that Vicky had a bit of matchmaking on her mind with the invitations to some of Daniel's previous girlfriends to his combined welcome home and birthday party. But before that evening was over, Daniel would reveal to us -- and then to the party guests - that he had fallen in love with a young Canadian woman and he was planning for her to join him in Australia soon. He had already been to the Immigration Department that day to set the process in motion.
So within 3 months, Daniel and his new love Kelly were reunited. Initially, she stayed with us and we had no qualms about the two of them cohabitating from Day One in Daniel's bedroom. Obviously, another party was in order and we again happily invited all our boy's buddies and former girlfriends to come and meet his new love. On that night, Daniel and Kelly announced their engagement.
They may have felt a bit inhibited in living with
the olds
, so after only 6 weeks they found themselves a small apartment about 20 minutes' drive away. It wasn't a long engagement and within 10 months of Kelly arriving here, they were married here in Sydney. Kelly's parents and brother flew in from Vancouver for the ceremony and reception and Vicky and I encouraged them to stay for an extra week so we could proudly show them around our wonderful city.
So they were wed in June 2003 and in due course began a family with the birth of a daughter Charlotte in 2006. A son, Stuart followed in 2008. The jobs that Daniel held in London and Vancouver must have looked really good on his C.V. because he manoeuvred his way into a very well paid job that enabled them to buy their first home much earlier than expected. They were moving further away from us, the travel time now 30 minutes across town.
You have a bit of the family background now so I need to bring us up closer to the present day so that I can relate the story I have for you. The year is now 2015 and Daniel and Kelly are both now 37; their kids 9 and 7. Their wedding anniversary was coming around and Vicky and I, being quite the ones for organising parties, suggested we put one on to celebrate the occasion of their 12
th
.
A small gathering of around 20 of theirs and our closest friends was organised for the coming Friday night at our home. Vicky loves organising parties ... all the invitations had gone out and everyone happily accepted. Then Daniel called on Wednesday to tell us his boss was sending him across to New Zealand (a bit over 3 hours flying time from Sydney) on Thursday morning for a rush business trip, a series of urgent meetings in Auckland and Wellington. Daniel said he expected that he could still make it back by around 6 on Friday evening so he urged us not to cancel the party plans.
The first that we knew that Daniel was not going to make it to his own wedding anniversary was when Kelly arrived at our front door alone just before 7 on the night of the party. She said Daniel had called, that the last meeting over there had dragged on and he had to make a frantic cab ride in heavy traffic to the International Airport, only to be told the flight had closed. He watched his aircraft taxi out and take off, frustrated that he was now stranded ... that was the last Sydney flight out of Wellington that night.
It was way too late to postpone the party with guests beginning to arrive even while we sat around with Kelly discussing what we should do. Vicky and I were a little annoyed ... she would have known by around 3pm our time that he wasn't on the flight so Vicky and I were somewhat peeved that she hadn't called us then. We may have been able to phone around to postpone everybody until the Saturday night. Well, I was only a touch annoyed but Vicky was -- shall we say -- regally pissed off.
So the anniversary party went ahead with one of the two guests-of-honour absent and the other over indulging on alcohol so it turned out not to be one of the better parties we had hosted. I kept the speeches and cake cutting short for fear Kelly's slurred words would paint Daniel's beautiful wife as unable to hold her liquor. Oh, I don't think I'd mentioned the word beautiful in relation to Kelly previously ... had I? Well, she sure was and that lilting Canadian accent just added to the appeal.
I held off saying anything in the earlier pages but I have to admit that I proudly uttered a few "That's my boy" comments when we first met Daniel's beautiful life partner. Oh, only to Vicky and my brother and my old dad and a few of my long-term mates. What's the expression ... "punching above his weight?" That's probably unfair because Vicky and I always considered my son was quite a catch -- a good looking young man and very intelligent. Why, even my beloved wife had once or twice actually paid me the compliment of saying that Daniel took after me.
But Vicky ... well, she has always been a bit reserved about Kelly. She was always polite in her presence but to me she would express her inner feelings. I did wonder if Vicky had pre-judged, if she had formed that opinion that night at the welcome home party to Daniel when he told us of his plans to bring Kelly to Australia ... before Kelly even arrived.
Was my wife one of those mothers who immediately resented some younger woman - particularly such an attractive one - coming along and replacing them as the key woman in our son's life? Or did she at least wait until Kelly's arrival down under before she began slipping in those snide little comments to me. About her dress sense and how she felt Kelly often spoke out of turn. They may have been generational problems. But Vicky also found our daughter-in-law at times to be over exuberant in mixed company ... Vicky said she came across as a bit of a flirt.
I myself loved Kelly's often cheeky manner, especially when she would sidle up to me and hook her arm in mine to leave some flippant or even suggestive remark lingering in the air, conjuring up all sorts of innuendo. Daniel never seemed to mind her flirtatious ways.
So you can imagine how Vicky reacted to Kelly getting herself a little sloshed as she coped with being alone at her own anniversary party.
Our guests began to drift away early, from around 11.15 ... it was just that kind of party without the key man, Daniel there. By a quarter to midnight, most had gone and the vivacious brunette Kelly surprised us by walking into the living room with her coat over her arm and purse in hand.
"Where are you going Kelly?" my wife sounded indignant.
"I'm gonna drive home," slurred Kelly. Even her attractive curvaceous body swayed a little as she stood before us. She was definitely not in any condition to drive.
"Oh no you're not sweetheart, you can't drive in that condition," Vicky countermanded, rising from the lounge alongside me and looking back at me for support in restraining our daughter-in-law.
"I'll be okay ... really!"
"No Kelly, you can forget about driving tonight. Tell her Richard."
I could sense that Kelly could blow the breathalyser meter right off the scale but more dangerous was the prospect that the mother of our grandchildren could be in an accident. I stood too to remonstrate with our son's wife, "Vicky's right Kelly, you can't drive tonight, you've had way too much to drink."