Do all men have fantasies about their wives female friends? I think they do.
My husband has for years. He has made it very clear that he is attracted to a few of my friends. I can't blame him I do have some very attractive friends. I love teasing him during sex, its funny how he gets so worked up over it. After all it's just a wild fantasy, something that will never happen. All my friends are respectful and classy. I just couldn't see anything ever happening with any of them and my husband.
I have several close female friends that I have known for many years. He likes all my friends but its Sonia and Wendy that he fantasizes about in particular.
Sonia is Eastern European and has never married. She has lived with different men on and off. Sonia is gorgeous, dark hair, blue eyes and a light complexion. She is tall and thin and could pass for a model. She is the wild one. Never shy and speaks what's on her mind which of course gets her into all kinds of situations. I have never been out with Sonia when men aren't hitting on her. It doesn't matter where we are, the grocery store, coffee shop, she is just a magnet for men. My husband has known her for many years and has always loved her.
About ten years ago she got breast implants. She came over to the house and couldn't wait to show me her new acquisitions. My husband happened to be home but Sonia is far from shy. She just opened up her blouse to show us. She was so proud. She even let my husband touch them with my permission of course. My husband still fondly talks about that day.
Wendy, on the other hand, is the sweet and proper type. She married her high school sweetheart, now has two kids and life is good. She is the typical mom with the mini van. She is very attractive in a cute way. She is the youngest of the group. I have always considered Wendy as my baby sister. My husband has always fantasied about both Wendy and Sonia.
My friends and I usually get together a couple of times a year at one of our homes. It's a girl's night out. We catch up on life, update on men and bitch about partners, accompanied by lots of wine. Its always a fun evening.
It was my turn to host, so I told my husband they were coming over the next week. Well, he started in about his fantasies, just like a kid. His birthday was coming up and since he didn't really need or want anything he said the least I could do was hear him out, so I did. Yeah just like a kid.
A little bit of background. When we were dating I surprised him with a threesome with my friend Jenny and I for his birthday. Back then every guy that I dated asked me for a threesome with Jenny after they met her. I always had the same response "I already had a threesome with Jenny, you just weren't there". My husband never asked me for a threesome when we were dating. In fact he never mentioned Jenny, although I'm sure he was thinking all kinds of things. I found this to be very respectful and so I surprised him on his birthday. To this day he says that was the best birthday gift ever and that's when he decided he wanted to marry me. I'm sure he was hoping that Jenny was part of the package.
I decided to play along and hear out his fantasy. He had this fantasy that he would stay up in our bedroom when the girls arrived and watch TV so he couldn't hear us. Then during the course of the evening I would ask the girls if any of them wanted to go up and play with husband. They would knock on the door and he would blindfold himself and lie on the bed and wait.
No talking allowed...just music or the TV in the background to disguise sounds. They could do whatever they wanted to him, preferably of a sexual nature. When completed they would leave without saying a word. Obviously he had given this a lot of thought. I joked and added that he wasn't allowed to touch or grab them and he couldn't ask me which friend it was. It would be more erotic to never know. Those were my rules. He quickly agreed and was thrilled at the possibilities.
Of course I laughed. I told him there wasn't a hope in hell that any of my friends would play along. But I had a plan so I agreed that I would ask my friends. No guarantees and don't get your hopes up. I think he was shocked that I had agreed to his fantasy. He was thrilled.